When dealing with inappropriate content, the safest way for children to be online is with their parents. Of course, that’s not always practical, especially in a home with many children. But remember again that the goal of Internet parenting is not to control our children to a pseudo-victory entirely shored up by our imposed force of will. Our goal is to help our children to be self-motivated, self-managing “netizens.” So ultimately, children have to be weaned into self-governing, wise decision makers because they value the presence of the Spirit enough to not want to lose it.